What’s running in his head

Ever wondered what a guy sees in you for the first time… when you enter the café or the classroom or maybe the supposed new office for the interview. The results are in sharp contrast to the things you fret over.

What he perceives of you is well too different from what you are detailing about. Men see at things in package deal, which does not mean you and your friend together for him!! No, incase he is not a pervert but a girl inside out top to bottom. You always think that why are you not rated as the most desirable by them, well think again something is wrong about you maybe your first impression!!

You have to stop playing I SEE… HE SAW game; make it a game in which you are not see – sawing, you are just winning!!

Thinking pattern of a man is something like of a kid trying to see the fancy items in the mart carefully settled on the aisle bearing the color coordination in mind by the store manager’s acumen. Similarly, men see the whole package, this does not mean that you walk out with dirty feet or hairy arms but yes firstly, you have to fill in yourself with that positivism which will burn all calories and negativity inside you. I will explain it with a few examples, look around and you will find this true on your own too and once you crack the code you can easily understand what impressions you have left.

Eyes:

You see - Given any opportunity you will somehow put some makeup on it, be it a fine line or think coat of mascara.

He sees - If your eyes look sad, the shine is lost and the dark eye shadows match the black of his tie. Makeup won’t hide your reality so go light with the makeup and heavy with your happiness.

Bottom line: They like happy women who are just living life and managing troubles yet not giving up.

Hair

You see - If your hair is straight or the in vogue messy style, because you want to epitomize the fashion of today. You will count your split ends and each time promise to snip them once the boss lets you off hook.

He sees - If your hair is not sparse and good to touch. If he wants to smell them or by any means wants to feel them since they are not dry, lady you are in utopia otherwise do not go out with your dry hair out… they all have dusters at home please do not offer a new one to them.

Bottom line: Men today want women who exude confidence with their real selves. A big mohawk full of sticky products will very much tune him out. They do not want dolls; their sisters let them play with them ages ago.

Smile:

You see - Your smile should not broaden your already 12 acre nose, and therefore you want to make a small line on your face. With the passage of years you have only looked more constipated right!

They see - A man is totally baffled with a beautiful smile,which certainly does not mean that we take cosmetic help for Julia Roberts dimples, but yes a genuine warm smile is what is the new come hither. Batting yor eye lashes will only indicate that you use inferior quality mascara but a warm smile will tell him that the sun kisses your feet first and then walk out shining.

Bottom line: what you have been told that a smiling lady misses the most shots, since she seems approachable well, put that verse in the trash can. It’s just that the smiling woman aims for the best so losing the lamer ones is never bad.

Similarly, what you might see in your figure, your height and sense of dressing might actually not even be registered by them and they are looking at you in a totally different way remember they are wired.

A man sees a woman in many other ways like her figure her curves, yes he does dirty thinking we all know it’s a cliché now. But there is more than that, he will see your personality your laughter your sense of contentment, ambitions and accomplishments, aims and energy for future. Yes he will not want a woman caked with makeup or baring her cleavage for the whole nation but he will definitely want someone who has put some effort to look good.

Women today, have gone crazy to get that attention but the simple facts of happiness have been ignored, to all of you the only tip is be yourself and be happy; there is nothing more attractive than a happy person with an infectious warm aura around herself. He only wants to be more happy right? And that comes when you are happy.